Introducing the GAIN framework for feedback: an evidence-based approach to giving feedback that people love, appreciate, and act on

A step-by-step guide to crafting feedback you’ll want to give and people will want to get

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The GAIN framework (Goal, Actions, Impacts, Next actions) is more effective than typical feedback because framing feedback around what someone stands to gain is more motivating than focusing on what to avoid.

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Sharing observations of actions and their impacts is far more effective than making judgments, because critical judgments almost guarantee defensiveness and derail conversations.

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Even flattering judgments like 'You're a rockstar PM' can destroy growth mindset and foster people-pleasing, because if success is attributed to brilliance then failure implies lack of it.

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Saying 'I'm giving you these comments because I have very high expectations and I know you can reach them' more than quadrupled revision rates compared to a neutral framing.

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Saying 'Feel free to say no' when making a request doubled the percentage of people who said yes, because supporting autonomy preempts resistance and engenders goodwill.

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Acknowledging your own contribution to a problem before giving feedback is one of the most disarming approaches available, because it prevents the recipient from fixating on your role in the situation.

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